From the time a young boy in America is put into daycare, or Pre-school, his life is forever changed by entering a world in which he is no longer given his role declared by God. He will be challenged left and right through his entire 12 years of schooling and extended years at college, that women are equal to him. He will be told girls are just the same as boys. He'll be scolded for saying or even thinking otherwise. He'll have parents, teachers, faculty, media, books, newspapers, magazines, infiltrating his mind that girls are just as strong, just as smart, just as able to handle anything that a man can handle. And like so many magazines, newspapers and TV media outlets, the boys will constantly hear or read not only how girls are equal, but how much better women are than men. (Now before to many of you women out there throw this book into the trash, please understand what I am saying. I do believe women are smart, strong and capable. I believe we have endurance like no man created. That's because we're women! To try and compare women to men is ridiculous. We are not equal to them. They are certainly not equal to us. Men could never handle birth, the intense lack of sleep and personal time women severely lack through the process of raising kids. Men as a whole, cannot hold children in their arms as long as women can because their muscles were not formed the same way women's are. Therefore we are stronger in some areas. And even if we could do it all, that is not the orderly world that God ordained for male and female. There is a reason God put things in order. Like it or not, we are under the authority of man. This is not meant to be a degrading or sexist or a demeaning system. God put this in place to protect and preserve the role of a woman, so we would be the ones helping to keep the world in order. No one was created more fitted to be with a man, than a woman. It is the most honorable position. I am sick of the feminists spitting on the wondrous, unselfish role that we were given. That being said;)
Then we have sports in which girls are always allowed to go against the boys. The boys are taunted by the girls to get them if they can. Hit them if they can. Girls tease the boy that they are better than him, stronger than him, and can do anything he can. The boys are teased if they can't run as fast, hit as far, or preform as well. The boys are made to feel weak, rejected, less of who they are supposed to be. Yet, when these boys strike out against a girl, or in their teen years elbow a teenage girl in her breast while playing basketball, or young adulthood hit their girlfriend or wife, these boys, teens and men, are scoffed at, ridiculed and punished for being a domineering wife beater, the abusive boyfriend, the jerk at the playground. Well folks, men have fights all the time, since boyhood, they get into fights. Why is it wrong to hit a girl? If all they have been told is how equal and better that a woman is than a man, why do you expect them to understand it's wrong to hit a girl? It's been ingrained into their very being that women are nothing other than a guy with a different private part. Why do we have such an enormous problem with domestic violence? Every year it's worse. Because women are no longer a thing to be protected, treasured, and preserved. They are an equal beast taunting a boy, a teen, a man, that they are just the same. So in this screwed up culture, we have "justice systems" that are based on this insane society view. Mothers are everything, Fathers are nothing. And I do understand they're are a lot of "dead beat dad's" out there. But congratulate the feminist movement for making that continuously possible. Women don't need men. They can handle everything on their own, they're independent, successful career women...with a court order to receive child support of course from the lousy father, which takes nearly a third or more of his paycheck each week. And if they don't receive child support, the man can go to jail, and the woman again is praised and pitied for going through such a tough time. I understand that there are evil men who do evil things and create situations that the woman had nothing to do with. But there are also a great many fathers who are under this feminised liberal regime that strips them of their parental rights even if there is no divorce. A man in marriage today is supposed to support his wife in doing whatever career she wants in order to provide them with the lifestyle they want. Equal partners. 50/50. No more male leadership, no more head of the household, no more sole provider, protector. The woman has stripped him of these titles, yet when he doesn't provide enough, according to her, when he doesn't protect enough, come home enough, or when he fights back when provoked by her constant and unrelenting taunts, he becomes a worthless, loser of a husband. And a pathetic, un-involved father. I know this because, I married one. Some people say it's because he changed between the first marriage and second, that's why he's so much better in a relationship now with me. Well, there is an element of truth to that, truth being he is better, and he did learn some lessons. But if I was taunting, nagging, provoking, he would react no differently toward me. I know this because on 3 occasions I provoked my husband. I saw the "monster" the first wife claimed him to be. It didn't take me long to understand the buttons I could not push. He did not strike me or anything of that nature. But I literally brought out the worst in him when it came to taking away his God given authority, especially where the children were concerned. Biblically the father is head of the home, the provider, protector, and leader. That is how God created males to be. By design they have this desire to conqueror, to provide and be king of his castle. It unfortunately is being beaten out of our sons as the grow up in this world and it does not jive with our American feminist culture or our court systems. Thus the first battle is learning that the reality of our world will never again be in line with the Bible. We can only control our small world at home and live things out as best and righteously as we can, fighting the good fight, hoping to receive a just outcome. As a stepmom, you will be on the front lines. It's important to be well learned, and schooled in the areas of facts and myths. Learn your state laws, what rights the fathers have, and petition to improve them. Lets get "equality" for Fathers rights.
